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Milkie
W:O:A Metalmaster
My friend is pregnant and thinking about keeping the baby. Please no...
Depends! If she's late 20s and living with a BF or somehting like that, I don't see a problem.
But that raises the Q: What is her hage?
Milkie
W:O:A Metalmaster
She's 18. She has lot of money so that would be covered, but I don't think she's ready. She thinks that after few months (after the baby being born) she can already go out with friends. Also she has been with her boyfriend about 3 months or so.
Milkie
W:O:A Metalmaster
Hm. Not good idea!.
I have to agree with you here. Too irresponsable.
Yup. And the worst part is that she has drank a bit alcohol while being pregnant.
Milkie
W:O:A Metalmaster
A bit or a lot!
A bit, thank god. But I don't understand how she can be so irresponsible about all that.
Tja...
Sommige menschen... (some people)
Well, she'll find out the hard way, I guess.
Don't know what else to say.
Milkie
W:O:A Metalmaster
Tja...
Sommige menschen... (some people)
Well, she'll find out the hard way, I guess.
Don't know what else to say.
Yeah, guess so. :/
agresionpower
W:O:A Metalgod
well to be honest it's not up to use to make this decision, it's her body, and her life.
(even though I wouldn't recommend it of course
)
I know a few teen age moms (well they are a bit older now but, you know, they where teenage moms) and they life very happy lifes and wouldn't want to have made a different choice.
(even though I wouldn't recommend it of course
)I know a few teen age moms (well they are a bit older now but, you know, they where teenage moms) and they life very happy lifes and wouldn't want to have made a different choice.
well to be honest it's not up to use to make this decision, it's her body, and her life.
(even though I wouldn't recommend it of course
I know a few teen age moms (well they are a bit older now but, you know, they where teenage moms) and they life very happy lifes and wouldn't want to have made a different choice.
You're right, it's none of our buniness. Though.. I can (and do) have an opinion about it!
And my opinion is that it's almost never a good idea. But then again, if thye're happy with it! Who am I to judge them?
Edit Piaf zegt: It's not only her body, it's also the body of a new born. Who isn't capable of doing ANYTHING at all.
Milkie
W:O:A Metalmaster
well to be honest it's not up to use to make this decision, it's her body, and her life.
(even though I wouldn't recommend it of course
I know a few teen age moms (well they are a bit older now but, you know, they where teenage moms) and they life very happy lifes and wouldn't want to have made a different choice.
Yeah I totally agree! I know at least one teen mom and she is very happy with how her life is. But I'm not sure if her pregnancy was an accident, because my friend's pregnancy was.
Girls do grow as a person when they're pregnant and so on, but it's not always enough. I just don't think she's ready. She likes to party quite a lot and she should get some kind of education. She's not currently in school and if she decides to keep the baby, it's gonna be very hard to go to any school.
And as I said, she and her boyfriend has been together for about 3 months only. In my opinion it's not very good to have a baby at that point of their relationship, when it can change a lot and they can even brake up before the baby is even born.
Also she is/was depressed and she gets anxious very easily. Some really small things put really big pressure on her and stuff. I just don't think it's good to bring baby to that situation. She should get better, I think.
Of course I'll support her whatever she decides.
Haha, pretty big rant.
Yeah I totally agree! I know at least one teen mom and she is very happy with how her life is. But I'm not sure if her pregnancy was an accident, because my friend's pregnancy was.
Girls do grow as a person when they're pregnant and so on, but it's not always enough. I just don't think she's ready. She likes to party quite a lot and she should get some kind of education. She's not currently in school and if she decides to keep the baby, it's gonna be very hard to go to any school.
And as I said, she and her boyfriend has been together for about 3 months only. In my opinion it's not very good to have a baby at that point of their relationship, when it can change a lot and they can even brake up before the baby is even born.
Also she is/was depressed and she gets anxious very easily. Some really small things put really big pressure on her and stuff. I just don't think it's good to bring baby to that situation. She should get better, I think.
Of course I'll support her whatever she decides.
Haha, pretty big rant.
That's basically the only thing you can actually do. Just be there for her.
