Gay metalheads @ Wacken?

[Sodomy&Lust]

Great post! *bows*

I really hope you find someone in Wacken, just for a beer, or for further fun . Come here after the festival and tell us how it went!!

I guess the gay scene in Wacken might be slightly different from the usual one. I mean, one guy wearing a pink bra might be totally hetero, but one guy singing along "girls, girls, girls" most surely won't. Just my little piece of advice

 

[gnoff]

Yup...time to burst the bubble guys: for the past 7 years I have been among you at Wacken, drinking your beer, rolling in your mud, moshing in your pits, banging my head next to yours and putting my horns up in the air with all the rest of you....and I'm gay.

Oh no!
Seriously though, good for you

Who knows, I might have even seen you in the showers!

Not probable, I'm disgusting enough not to use the showers during WOA

Now I know, it's disgusting, sick, totally untrue and I will never become kvlt and grim because of this. Learning to live with that though..

Nope, there's nothing more fucked up with you than any other metal head.

However, aside from being this obvious disgrace to the community as a whole I am also just a regular longhaired, bearded, blackclothed, armyboots wearing, beerdrinking, meatdevouring, for-Satan-screaming metalhead. You would not guess I was gay if I was standing next to you, trust me.

I'm short haired, bearded, pink clothed and so on, though straight

But...I have truly never ever met another metalhead that's gay as well and I would love for that to change. I am not looking for dates or sex (necessarily ) just for likeminded people. Sure, I know some non-metal gay people but it's just not the same. They don't share my love for black, death or doom metal and don't understand why I refuse to wear pink or go to gay bars because the music sucks. Besides, I'm not exactly out of the closet yet (aside from a few relatives and my closest friends).

Never as far as I know met an openly gay metal head, guess mainly because the scene itself tends to be homophobic I guess. Just easier to "hide" it among the others.

It makes me feel lonely sometimes.

That sucks, really hope this post of yours will help you get in touch with "others", even if this word feels strange to use since I rarely bother about ppl's sexuality.

Finally, I don't intend for this to be a 'gay-only' thread at all. If you're not gay but still have something to say, feel free! I also don't mind jokes about my sexuality, don't worry. My intentions are absolutely serious though.

Hope WOA number 8 will be awesome!

 

[Lord Soth]

Not probable, I'm disgusting enough not to use the showers during WOA

Yeah, I know.. you're so ugly, not even furniture would want to have sex with you. Only a toaster maybe. Or a waffle maker perhaps.

Poor gnoff.

 

[FromTheToedden]

Yeah, I know.. you're so ugly, not even furniture would want to have sex with you. Only a toaster maybe. Or a waffle maker perhaps.

Poor gnoff.

 

[gnoff]

Yeah, I know.. you're so ugly, not even furniture would want to have sex with you. Only a toaster maybe. Or a waffle maker perhaps.

Poor gnoff.

I like toast, waffles also!

 

[Lord Soth]

I like toast, waffles also!

I knew it!

 

[Weeping Willow]

Hmm... fuck statistics I would say, just be yourself and talkative.. words can spread around faster than you can empty a bottle of beer! Maybe even this thread helps you find or meet someone or more who is into metal AND gay. Who knows?

You could - if it feels right for you to do that - also post a link to your myspace/facebook whatever page, where one could see you. And step out of anonymity. Or just do that by request of someone. Your choice.

(just a thought, y'know)

You're right of course. Something is still holding me back though. I'm not sure what it is, some kind of fear. Then again, a year ago nobody new and I've been slowly telling people close to me in the past couple of months. I've only had good reactions so far and it definitely made me feel good and very relieved. But it was very hard to do so, believe me. So I think i've actually come a long way already. I will take those final steps when I'm ready for it. Not sure when that will be though.

I'd rather think of 1 out of 100 Cannibal Corpse fans might in truth be a vegetarian! Hehehe.....

lol!

 

[Weeping Willow]

Great post! *bows*

I really hope you find someone in Wacken, just for a beer, or for further fun . Come here after the festival and tell us how it went!!

I will, hope I'll have something to share then. If not on this issue I will definitely have been enjoying myself though.

Wacken has always been great for me, it just could get *a little* better still..

I guess the gay scene in Wacken might be slightly different from the usual one. I mean, one guy wearing a pink bra might be totally hetero, but one guy singing along "girls, girls, girls" most surely won't. Just my little piece of advice

Hehe yes, makes it hard to tell the difference between gays and straights.

 

[Lady_Wolf]

at least you can look at pretty metalmen not wearing shirts etc
more than enough of those on wacken

 

[Weeping Willow]

at least you can look at pretty metalmen not wearing shirts etc
more than enough of those on wacken

Hehe, the ones taking off their shirts at the first hint of sunray are usually not the ones I would like to see taking off their shirts.

 

[cyber999]

Weeping Willow, i really admire you courage!

i have nothing against homesexuality as long as i am respected, but that works for everything..

i respect everybody that respects me

good luck! \mm/

 

[Lord Soth]

Hehe, the ones taking off their shirts at the first hint of sunray are usually not the ones I would like to see taking off their shirts.

Hehe, I know what you mean... while being straight, there are many male individuals I would not want to see even half-naked, much less than naked! *shudders*

But Obi-Wan Kenobi says:

"These aren't the ones you are looking for."

 

[Undomiel]

Hehe, the ones taking off their shirts at the first hint of sunray are usually not the ones I would like to see taking off their shirts.

ROFL

You´re so damned right!!! But that´s the same to us hetero girls. I guess I don´t need to explain any further WHAT kind of guy we both think of...

 

[LooseCannon]

I have a cousin who is a lesbian & I support her with all my heart.I also hang out at goth clubs(love goth girls) at times & made friends with people in the gay community(one even fixed my leather jacket) & I have no probs about their lifestyle.

 

[Lady_Wolf]

I have a cousin who is a lesbian & I support her with all my heart.I also hang out at goth clubs(love goth girls) at times & made friends with people in the gay community(one even fixed my leather jacket) & I have no probs about their lifestyle.

You are so open minded.
having no problems with gay's ánd goths...