50K Before Wacken 2012

[Sipyloidea]

Pretty much the same here, a friend of mine just called me because she's about to date a new guy after having broken up with her last one about a week ago.

What's most frustrating is that I had a little fling with her ex before they got together. When we had that he went out of him way to make sure it was just friends with benefits, nothing serious. When he had a chance at being with her not even a month later, he was very determined to have her commit...

 

[cetta]

I'm actually not surprised that there are some people who can change partner straight away after having been in a relationship for a long time...I'd never be able to and in fact I cannot understand how they can do it...well, good for them...

 

[Sipyloidea]

so, what are we doing wrong?

Really dunno. There was another guy that I liked that I willingly "ceded" to a friend because her guy broke up and she really needed someone to care for her. They spent the night and one day later she was suddenly all "I hope he doesn't get too clingy" and one week later she was back with her ex. That guy I left for her remains in love with her and is now out of reach for me... I guess I screwed up on that one big time.

 

[Sipyloidea]

I'm actually not surprised that there are some people who can change partner straight away after having been in a relationship for a long time...I'd never be able to and in fact I cannot understand how they can do it...well, good for them...

Well she didn't change him, it's just that he was interested in her, but not in me

 

[Quark]

so yeah, a friend is single for 6 days (after a relation of 2.5 years) and is pretty much going with a new girl already... I'm single for more than 3 years now... what am I doing wrong? or am I really that appalling?

Pretty much the same here, a friend of mine just called me because she's about to date a new guy after having broken up with her last one about a week ago.

Nothing wrong.

All in due time. Don't worry.

And perhaps you don't even want that! Who knows? I can't look into your head(s).

But no need to worry!

en bedankt leo!

Met alle plezier!

 

[Sipyloidea]

Nothing wrong.

All in due time. Don't worry.

And perhaps you don't even want that! Who knows? I can't look into your head(s).

But no need to worry!


Met alle plezier!

Well, it's not that I'm searching for someone, I actually don't mind being single. I like someone, or I don't, but I don't search for someone to like. What's frustrating is that when I do like someone, they're either not interested in a serious thing with me or a friend of mine takes them away without being serious about them

 

[Sipyloidea]

It should rather be

What's frustrating is that when I do like someone, they're not interested in a serious thing with ME

This is where I don't get how I'm going wrong. It's not like they don't like me, but they're not intrigued enough to get serious, although they wouldn't decline getting into a relationship in general.

 

[cetta]

Well she didn't change him, it's just that he was interested in her, but not in me

They just want to be with someone...doesn't matter who..that's what I think! and this is frustrating because I think there's something wrong with them

 

[cetta]

They just want to be with someone...doesn't matter who..that's what I think! and this is frustrating because I think there's something wrong with them

(does what I wrote actually mean something?)

but anyway..hope you got my point!


btw...it depends on what you're looking for...that is, that moment when you like someone and realize him to be a douche. then you just "thank god" and leave things fall apart

 

[Quark]

It should rather be

What's frustrating is that when I do like someone, they're not interested in a serious thing with ME

This is where I don't get how I'm going wrong. It's not like they don't like me, but they're not intrigued enough to get serious, although they wouldn't decline getting into a relationship in general.

Look at it the other way.

Why should there be something wrong with you?

I don't think there's anything wrong with you. So I wouldn't worry about that!! It's maybe that they're not looking properly.

*knuddel*

Mach dich darüber keine Sorgen.

 

[Finnchick]

In this context I meant poor as in having pitty on those with "broken" internet

ok
Sometimes hard to get those from foregin language but I'll do my best and I am best!

 

[Finnchick]

No chance!

 

[Finnchick]

I'm ok, have the late shift. which isn't cool, but somebody couldn't work today soI'm filling in the gap...

You were able to sleep long today then?

 

[Finnchick]

so yeah, a friend is single for 6 days (after a relation of 2.5 years) and is pretty much going with a new girl already... I'm single for more than 3 years now... what am I doing wrong? or am I really that appalling?

You aren't so desperate to find someone that you would have to take just anyone

 

[Finnchick]

Oops time to go. See you all tomorrow

Night night and see you tomorrow