you get a different American instead next year though![]()
for me it's time to go... see ya later!
smoo... see ya later cunt!![]()
why everyone jump on this word.. its not an act.. thats how i fucken talk... ask any of those who met me
I'm sorry btw. for using the word "demand". It was a crappy translation for what I was trying to say. He was more likely asking you guys to stop it.
That it's not funny is in front of all his oppinion and since he's the issue, that should be respected! He doesn't talk that way for fun, I assure you that. He talks that way, because it's the way he talks. That he's not talking like that for fun doesn't mean that you shouldn't be offended, because the intention of using words like "cunt" and "fuck" is in his case different than in yours.
You're not earning yourself much of respect here btw. by telling he hasn't deserved respect... this is bullshit! Giving respect to someone is your choice and nothing that the other needs to earn from you. And everyone has the right to be threatened with respect in a first.
If this makes you understand better, it's not about the words that he or you are using. It's about the fact, that this way of talking is his normal way of talking and therefore part of his identity. If you imitate that, you are making fun of him, not with him...
I'm sorry btw. for using the word "demand". It was a crappy translation for what I was trying to say. He was more likely asking you guys to stop it.
That it's not funny is in front of all his oppinion and since he's the issue, that should be respected! He doesn't talk that way for fun, I assure you that. He talks that way, because it's the way he talks. That he's not talking like that for fun doesn't mean that you shouldn't be offended, because the intention of using words like "cunt" and "fuck" is in his case different than in yours.
You're not earning yourself much of respect here btw. by telling he hasn't deserved respect... this is bullshit! Giving respect to someone is your choice and nothing that the other needs to earn from you. And everyone has the right to be threatened with respect in a first.
If this makes you understand better, it's not about the words that he or you are using. It's about the fact, that this way of talking is his normal way of talking and therefore part of his identity. If you imitate that, you are making fun of him, not with him...
*agrees*
only thing I'd say is, for some people at least, swearing isn't the most respectable thing. but even if you don't like it, and especially since that's just how he is, you just have to accept what you don't like, and respect him as a person.
it's like how I won't ever get on to anyone about drinking... it's not something I respect, but that doesn't matter to me because I still respect you, just in general.
Just so you see it yourself. But now I am out of here. Looks like leaving the forum wasn't my worst idea. If you guys wanna stay in touch with me, I have IMs, myspace and all this shit. Your choice. Bye, people.
well smoo told that in his part of australia everybody talks like that.
so to him it probably doesn't feel like swearing at all...
ut I'm going to eat something extra now... brb
alrighty...
don't think I'll be here when you get back, though...
see you :]
great, two friends (one of them is my best friend) aren't coming to my birthday, they are going to an opeth gig :/