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Sipyloidea

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agresionpower

W:O:A Metalgod
22 Juni 2005
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Almere, Holland
I'm sorry btw. for using the word "demand". It was a crappy translation for what I was trying to say. He was more likely asking you guys to stop it.

That it's not funny is in front of all his oppinion and since he's the issue, that should be respected! He doesn't talk that way for fun, I assure you that. He talks that way, because it's the way he talks. That he's not talking like that for fun doesn't mean that you shouldn't be offended, because the intention of using words like "cunt" and "fuck" is in his case different than in yours.

You're not earning yourself much of respect here btw. by telling he hasn't deserved respect... this is bullshit! Giving respect to someone is your choice and nothing that the other needs to earn from you. And everyone has the right to be threatened with respect in a first.

If this makes you understand better, it's not about the words that he or you are using. It's about the fact, that this way of talking is his normal way of talking and therefore part of his identity. If you imitate that, you are making fun of him, not with him...

I have to say that I agree on this, although I might have been a part of the problem myself :eek:
 

xforeverxmetalx

W:O:A Metalgod
29 Dez. 2007
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I'm sorry btw. for using the word "demand". It was a crappy translation for what I was trying to say. He was more likely asking you guys to stop it.

That it's not funny is in front of all his oppinion and since he's the issue, that should be respected! He doesn't talk that way for fun, I assure you that. He talks that way, because it's the way he talks. That he's not talking like that for fun doesn't mean that you shouldn't be offended, because the intention of using words like "cunt" and "fuck" is in his case different than in yours.

You're not earning yourself much of respect here btw. by telling he hasn't deserved respect... this is bullshit! Giving respect to someone is your choice and nothing that the other needs to earn from you. And everyone has the right to be threatened with respect in a first.

If this makes you understand better, it's not about the words that he or you are using. It's about the fact, that this way of talking is his normal way of talking and therefore part of his identity. If you imitate that, you are making fun of him, not with him...

*agrees*
only thing I'd say is, for some people at least, swearing isn't the most respectable thing. but even if you don't like it, and especially since that's just how he is, you just have to accept what you don't like, and respect him as a person.
it's like how I won't ever get on to anyone about drinking... it's not something I respect, but that doesn't matter to me because I still respect you, just in general.
 

agresionpower

W:O:A Metalgod
22 Juni 2005
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Almere, Holland
*agrees*
only thing I'd say is, for some people at least, swearing isn't the most respectable thing. but even if you don't like it, and especially since that's just how he is, you just have to accept what you don't like, and respect him as a person.
it's like how I won't ever get on to anyone about drinking... it's not something I respect, but that doesn't matter to me because I still respect you, just in general.

well smoo told that in his part of australia everybody talks like that.
so to him it probably doesn't feel like swearing at all...