Hey, it's rather funny how you all go "well, if Kiss is metal..." or "If you think Bon Jovi is Metal then..."...
To me everything is Metal right from AC/DC to some grindcore-band. When I heard Helloween's Keeper 1 album the first time, I thought it was thrash metal or something. And what about the first time I heard Metallica's Fight Fire With Fire, I was sure that this kind of brutal Metal would never end up in my collection
Everybody just seems to be listening to harder and harder stuff, the longer they listen to this wonderfull genre.
To many non-Metal people, Bon Jovi is actually quite hard, and I still believe it's a part of the Heavy Metal scene, placed in the "soft" end of the whole scale...
Correct me if you think I'm wrong, BUT at the same time think about how hard your very first heavy experience really was