I put this under stupid shit because it is.
I went to see Overkill in VA last night.I usually stay at my best friend's house(she lives near the place) after the show.I went there 1st & found out that her & her bf are broke & can't go with me(she usually goes & he takes care of their 3 yr old daughter).He borrowed money from a friend.I drove him & his friend to the ATM to take the money out for the show.Those 2 were fighting on his 2-way cell.I argued with her on a another cell.I got 3 text on how our friendship is over (we've been friends for 20 years).The boyfriend has been to maybe 6 shows in the past 6 years to where she goes to 2 or 3 shows a month.The last text I got is that my stuff is on the porch.We went to the show.Had a great time(he even patched things up with a rival for his gf).I dropped him off at their place & went straight home(about an hour drive plus the drive from the club).I love them both like family & I'm caught between this shit.
Bottom line,she's threw a tantrum because she couldn't go & he did.What can I do?I don't wanna see a 20 yr friendship go out the window.
Explain it once both of you are at ease, or at least calmer than now.
Otherwise I don't know.