and I know you've been stressing all day when I had told you I was going to talk to you in the evening. I had assured you that I was not going to fight and that it was about nothing bad. Yet you were stressing and therefore (of course) disappointed in the evening when it really wasn't a bad thing. Not my fault, if you expect worse of me than I am. But don't blame me for fighting then if you were the one searching for fight to approve your worries.