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808Metal

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In my last relationship I told him that there was something about me and that I'd tell him, if he wants to know... he never asked for it and I'm certainly glad about it... I still feel myself more as a committer than a victim and don't want people to judge me for it

that's great, don't think of yourself as a victim. And he was not interested, then that's an indication that he's not the right one.
 

Sipyloidea

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Well we have talked them over, she has been through worse than I have so we have helped each other with those things. I love her as much as I could love anyone, I'm I just lost some of what I could have shared with her instead of on that ex girlfriend, I'm more cynical now. Not as romantic I guess, not sure if that's the best way to describe it.

I can understand..
 

Smoo_lord

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that's great, don't think of yourself as a victim. And he was not interested, then that's an indication that he's not the right one.

I am still searching for a meaningful relationship, since the big one, when i was together for 5 years.. just had a few that last a month or so, and I realise that i was kidding myself.. I did not feel the same way, so decided to end it before get too attached
 

808Metal

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I don't look at life and relationships through "rose colored glasses" anymore as the saying goes. In some ways it's better I guess, I'm more realistic in my expectations.
 

Sipyloidea

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that's great, don't think of yourself as a victim. And he was not interested, then that's an indication that he's not the right one.

But if I don't feel as victim, I'll blame myself and make me suffer. I spent actually lots of time to convince myself being a victim, to make it end. What would you suggest instead?
 

808Metal

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30 Nov. 2007
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I am still searching for a meaningful relationship, since the big one, when i was together for 5 years.. just had a few that last a month or so, and I realise that i was kidding myself.. I did not feel the same way, so decided to end it before get too attached

Mine lasted 3 years. And yeah you can tell much more quickly now when it's not right. Which is a good thing for both involved. So that's a good thing that you did.
 

Sipyloidea

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I also lost a lot of friends from this girl.. as we were in the same group of friends sort of, and i couldnt bear to be around her

Same here. I lost friends, because they still more stand to his side and because many lost respect of me (not of him though weirdly). I think it's this society thing: I am a slut, he's a hero, though we did the very same thing