Though I find it hard to believe you aren't aware, and I think that now it's just gone down to some kind of nitpicking war just because no one who has participated in the thread likes the band you represent, but I'd gather zuiop's employment of the word "gay" was probably in the slang sense. Like it or not, it is a slang term in many nations. In this case, one might read it as pretty much a reiteration of what's been said by a number of members already...not metal, weak piss, no good, doesn't belong at Wacken. It's just a way of overemphasizing.
Hopefully, at least I hope, this won't turn into some political correctness nitpicky-fest.