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Sipyloidea

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Ah that partially answered my last question. Anyway, might be a good opportunity to talk to them about it?

Dunno, I don't feel like going there and partying with them like it's was ok they excluded me yesterday. I figured if I didn't come to this party, they'd see I was pissed. Partys aren't really a good place to talk serious stuff
 

Sipyloidea

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Yeah kinda hard not to take it personally. But does your friend know about all this? Or does she stab you behind his back?

That's what I don't know. I was wondering if she went offline to not have him notice she talked to me. On the other hand that friend and me had an agreement that we wanted to spend time as long as I was around and that he'd tell me aobut it as soon as something was going on. And he didn't contact me
 

Empror1

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Dunno, I don't feel like going there and partying with them like it's was ok they excluded me yesterday. I figured if I didn't come to this party, they'd see I was pissed. Partys aren't really a good place to talk serious stuff

True that, but you should do something else then, otherwise you'll just end up getting stuck with your feelings and that'll only make things worse.
 

Empror1

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That's what I don't know. I was wondering if she went offline to not have him notice she talked to me. On the other hand that friend and me had an agreement that we wanted to spend time as long as I was around and that he'd tell me aobut it as soon as something was going on. And he didn't contact me

Well girls can be hard in that regard, if his girlfriend was all like "o but I wanted to spend some time alone with you, don't you care about us anymore?" sort of thing, might have been that he couldn't stand up to her.
 

Sipyloidea

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True that, but you should do something else then, otherwise you'll just end up getting stuck with your feelings and that'll only make things worse.

Yea, I guess. Just that I don't really know what I wanna do with my feelings yet. I could just show them I'm pissed to make them understand, I could talk to them... I don't know if I wanna talk to them in person or rather on the internet. I know that on the internet I can become rather bitchy. On the other hand in person I'm not bitchy enough, so I might undersell the situation. dunno..
 

Quark

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I keep being shut out because I'm the ex of someone and the new bitches don't want me there. Doesn't matter that I've been friends with those guys for 12 years, when there's a new girlfriend, she has the say! :mad:

My friends know exactly, that I've only come home becaues I wanna hang out with them. She lives here, she can spend time with them whenever she wants, but that doesn't matter.
What pisses me off the most is that they don't talk to me about it. They just go there and when I ask if something's up for the night, I'm being ignored. :mad:

Kleinkarrierte Leute! :(
 

Alix

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Okay good to hear. I wasn't able to go outside yesterday eve cuz I have a cold. :( Though I've got my hex-counting to keep me busy. ;)

When I was feeling a bit better and the codeine kicked in a little bit I washed my car and polished my work shoes. Success :D Much to do tomorrow, not much of which is particularly exciting, but such is a regular Sunday. I do however have the house parent-free (very likely totally free since my brother is only home to sleep most of the time). They're helping my aunty get a dead possum out of her ceiling...
 

Empror1

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Yea, I guess. Just that I don't really know what I wanna do with my feelings yet. I could just show them I'm pissed to make them understand, I could talk to them... I don't know if I wanna talk to them in person or rather on the internet. I know that on the internet I can become rather bitchy. On the other hand in person I'm not bitchy enough, so I might undersell the situation. dunno..

Tell then on the internet you want to talk to them in person? That way if they are inconsiderate you'll be bitchy, but if they aren't, you won't be. ;)
 

Sipyloidea

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Well girls can be hard in that regard, if his girlfriend was all like "o but I wanted to spend some time alone with you, don't you care about us anymore?" sort of thing, might have been that he couldn't stand up to her.

She's not that guy's girlfriend. The guy she's with, I haven't really had contact with since we broke up. I was really mad at him back then and didn't speak a word to him in 4 years. Then we kinda figured out the fight and we saw each other within that group of my friends again, but we never were really close anymore. The friend whose account she used is kinda my best friend in that group and a mutual friend of all of us
 

Empror1

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When I was feeling a bit better and the codeine kicked in a little bit I washed my car and polished my work shoes. Success :D Much to do tomorrow, not much of which is particularly exciting, but such is a regular Sunday. I do however have the house parent-free (very likely totally free since my brother is only home to sleep most of the time). They're helping my aunty get a dead possum out of her ceiling...

Sundays are usually the opposite for me. But you probably have to study then? Or is there just stuff to do in Australia on Sunday? :p
 

Empror1

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She's not that guy's girlfriend. The guy she's with, I haven't really had contact with since we broke up. I was really mad at him back then and didn't speak a word to him in 4 years. Then we kinda figured out the fight and we saw each other within that group of my friends again, but we never were really close anymore. The friend whose account she used is kinda my best friend in that group and a mutual friend of all of us

Hmm.. makes it a bit more complicated. Although it could very well mean he indeed didn't know she was using his account and she quickly clicked him offline when he entered the room or something. Unless he's a pretty bad friend altogether I can't imagine dumping a friend for someone else's gf, even if you've known her for a while.
 

Sipyloidea

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Hmm.. makes it a bit more complicated. Although it could very well mean he indeed didn't know she was using his account and she quickly clicked him offline when he entered the room or something. Unless he's a pretty bad friend altogether I can't imagine dumping a friend for someone else's gf, even if you've known her for a while.

That's exactly the point. Normally he'd never do that, he's a really good guy. But he also didn't contact me yesterday, which he should have done by our agreement