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[808Metal]

Thank you I am happy myself

Like since I became a teenager, the relation between me and my dad was really weird. Of course because of the issue between me and my mum... I always felt like he blamed me for what happend. And then, when I started having boyfriends and such he mostly gave me the feeling to consider me a slut (he and my mum were their first partners so really different midnsets...). I really felt like I always gotta get distanced from him and that he'd probably disgust me...

But now since my mum is gone, we spent way more time with each other and have some really nice talks. Also that we're preparing stuff togehter and such. And what is making me the most happy is that my mum always says: you're dad already told me about it... like he tells her about stuff that I do, that means he actually notices and might even be proud himself. I would have never expected him to see me that way again

Well it looks like something very positive came out of a not good situation, and that is very good! It made your dad really see you for who you are and well really get to know yo again, and see what a really nice and caring person you are. He sees the little girl he knew and loved and sees the great young lady that you have become.

 

[808Metal]

no, he's absolutely anti-metal... he says that of all music scenes metal is the most arrogant and that's why he doesn't want to have anything to do with it

Well some people just think that way. There's not much you can do to change his mind I guess. But that's OK, music is a very personal thing, a personal choice.

 

[Sipyloidea]

Thank you I am happy myself

Like since I became a teenager, the relation between me and my dad was really weird. Of course because of the issue between me and my mum... I always felt like he blamed me for what happend. And then, when I started having boyfriends and such he mostly gave me the feeling to consider me a slut (he and my mum were their first partners so really different mindsets...). I really felt like I always gotta get distanced from him and that he'd probably disgust me...

But now since my mum is gone, we spent way more time with each other and have some really nice talks. Also that we're preparing stuff togehter and such. And what is making me the most happy is that my mum always says: you're dad already told me about it... like he tells her about stuff that I do, that means he actually notices and might even be proud himself. I would have never expected him to see me that way again

my mum once told me that the relation between him and me just became that distanced because I was no child anymore and due to his own family my dad is really embarrassed about (can you say closeness?)... well and also that my parents were afraid if we kept the relation as close as it used to be with me as a child, that people would think he could abuse me or such That made me really angry... Why should it already be a case of pervertness, if a dad shows his daughter some love?

 

[808Metal]

at the moment he's into German rap and well, into any music that he thinks is fun. That's mostly due to the lyrics that are mostly just some lyrics making fun of anything.

Yeah Rap is still big here also. To me the saddest thing with most rap fans is that they are just trend followers. They just get into whatever is considered cool at the time, whatever their friends like. I'm not saying your brother is like that, but many are.

 

[Sipyloidea]

Well it looks like something very positive came out of a not good situation, and that is very good! It made your dad really see you for who you are and well really get to know yo again, and see what a really nice and caring person you are. He sees the little girl he knew and loved and sees the great young lady that you have become.

thanks... I hope that's true

 

[808Metal]

my mum once told me that the relation between him and me just became that distanced because I was no child anymore and due to his own family my dad is really embarrassed about (can you say closeness?)... well and also that my parents were afraid if we kept the relation as close as it used to be with me as a child, that people would think he could abuse me or such That made me really angry... Why should it already be a case of pervertness, if a dad shows his daughter some love?

That is very sad, but some people think that way. But I'm glad that it is improving for both of you, just take it slow and allow him to change his feelings and ideas at his pace, older people have a harder time changing their old thoughts and ideas.

 

[808Metal]

thanks... I hope that's true

I bet it is.

 

[808Metal]

That is very sad, but some people think that way. But I'm glad that it is improving for both of you, just take it slow and allow him to change his feelings and ideas at his pace, older people have a harder time changing their old thoughts and ideas.

I'm not saying that he is old, as in an old man. I may be older than him, just that he is much older than you. An entirely different generation.

 

[Sipyloidea]

Well some people just think that way. There's not much you can do to change his mind I guess. But that's OK, music is a very personal thing, a personal choice.

well he's actually kinda right... (bite me ) but I myself stand up for being that 'arrogant' if I have to and I just think that the advantages of the metalscene are worth that image (might be arrogant to say that too )

Yeah Rap is still big here also. To me the saddest thing with most rap fans is that they are just trend followers. They just get into whatever is considered cool at the time, whatever their friends like. I'm not saying your brother is like that, but many are.

well with German rap that's really different actually. At least about in the scene that my brother listens to. Those interprets are mostly making fun of about anything... their images and how people think they ruin society, theirselves, about just anything basicly. I think the music isn't that bad actually and I know that my brother is anything else but a follower... he's got his really own mind. If he was a follower, he'd be metalhead too or would be into pop, because that's the main two scenes he's moving in... he's really getting the hatred from every sides standing up for liking rap

 

[Sipyloidea]

That is very sad, but some people think that way. But I'm glad that it is improving for both of you, just take it slow and allow him to change his feelings and ideas at his pace, older people have a harder time changing their old thoughts and ideas.

yea, probably...

I'm not saying that he is old, as in an old man. I may be older than him, just that he is much older than you. An entirely different generation.

he's 61

 

[808Metal]

For some older people, it's very hard to embrace new ideas, different ways of thinking, he may be like that, it's not a thing he choses, just the way he is. He may not show it as much as he should, but I'm sure that he loves you very much. But as you said, for some people, it's hard to show affection.

 

[808Metal]

well he's actually kinda right... (bite me ) but I myself stand up for being that 'arrogant' if I have to and I just think that the advantages of the metalscene are worth that image (might be arrogant to say that too )

well with German rap that's really different actually. At least about in the scene that my brother listens to. Those interprets are mostly making fun of about anything... their images and how people think they ruin society, theirselves, about just anything basicly. I think the music isn't that bad actually and I know that my brother is anything else but a follower... he's got his really own mind. If he was a follower, he'd be metalhead too or would be into pop, because that's the main two scenes he's moving in... he's really getting the hatred from every sides standing up for liking rap

I understand, and that sounds difficult for him.

 

[Sipyloidea]

well he's actually kinda right... (bite me ) but I myself stand up for being that 'arrogant' if I have to and I just think that the advantages of the metalscene are worth that image (might be arrogant to say that too )

well with German rap that's really different actually. At least about in the scene that my brother listens to. Those interprets are mostly making fun of about anything... their images and how people think they ruin society, theirselves, about just anything basicly. I think the music isn't that bad actually and I know that my brother is anything else but a follower... he's got his really own mind. If he was a follower, he'd be metalhead too or would be into pop, because that's the main two scenes he's moving in... he's really getting the hatred from every sides standing up for liking rap

but therefore he learned making fun of anyone doing that ^^

 

[808Metal]

yea, probably...

he's 61

OK, much older than me

 

[Sipyloidea]

I understand, and that sounds difficult for him.

but therefore he learned making fun of anyone doing that ^^

.

It's not hard to him at all, because he doesn't care And he's really popular anyways. He's a great guy, mostly people hate him for being so great and yet having such a 'bad' taste in music Well, he knows better