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[Lady_Wolf]

but nobody does that, nobody tells me anything positive

 

[gee jay]

but I need friends here, who can gimme a hug when I need it, who tell me that I have good sides as well, who tell me that I am a good friend

Not to be a dick , but , find them. They are out there.
Maybe try to loosen up a little and talk to people. It doesn't have tobe anything important..just bullshit with people.

 

[Lady_Wolf]

like I already said, I am too afraid to talk to people I do not know

 

[Lady_Wolf]

I just wish I was normal

 

[Lady_Wolf]

just a more outgoing and open

 

[Lady_Wolf]

I do not want to go somewhere alone to see other people having fun with friends

 

[gee jay]

like I already said, I am too afraid to talk to people I do not know

you go see bands right ? Talk to some one there about the band
Get some beer in you !!

I would like to help , but I am not a big social person myself. When I go see band s I can talk to anybody there.

 

[gee jay]

I just wish I was normal

normal is overrated !!!

 

[Lady_Wolf]

I would not know what to say, or who to talk to
I'd be one of the few people alone there, and I do not want to interrupt other peoples conversations

 

[gee jay]

I would not know what to say, or who to talk to
I'd be one of the few people alone there, and I do not want to interrupt other peoples conversations

My friends don't like metal...I go to shows alone all the time. I have a great time. Meeting people at a show is easy.

 

[gee jay]

Say your at a show. getting a beer at the bar and people are talking about the band that just played.." they sucked" or whatever..easy to get into that conversation. Agree or disagree with them. You won't be interupting.
Then say ..you like so and so band ? Oh I saw them a year ago they were great..
You can always buy a drink for someone, that works !!

 

[gee jay]

just a more outgoing and open

I really wish I could help you, because I was quite shy growing up. I can't give you a cure..just silly but true comments like : Be yourself.If people don't like you ..that's their problem not yours !!

 

[gee jay]

I have to run out now...( REALLY )..

Take care now. Maybe talk again later.
Don't be so hard on yourself.... You are a good person.

Off now..

*greatbighug*

 

[Lady_Wolf]

thanks man

 

[Lady_Wolf]

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