70K Before Wacken 2013

[Zachia]

you would think that... nope around 10 and already wearing kiddyheels and make up...rough life ahead!

Make up fora teenyearold..

 

[Nemesiss]

But i think you can give them both -guidance and love.

ofcourse... a little though love is still love. You're guiding them because you love them. Giving them everything they want with out discipline is neglect in my eyes...

 

[Koldawne]

you would think that... nope around 10 and already wearing kiddyheels and make up...rough life ahead!

Oh goodness, that poor kid is going to be in for a world of hurt in about 8 years -if her parents don't get sick and kick her out first.

But i think you can give them both -guidance and love.

ofcourse... a little though love is still love. You're guiding them because you love them. Giving them everything they want with out discipline is neglect in my eyes...

BINGO - Love means you care enough to guide them so that they aren't going to be going out into the world with no clue how things REALLY work.

 

[Zachia]

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ofcourse... a little though love is still love. You're guiding them because you love them. Giving them everything they want with out discipline is neglect in my eyes...

with love i don't meant "give them everything".But only guidance and directions don't work.
I know what i'm talking about..my parents educated me with lots ofguidance and rules....i didn't know how to make my own dicisions.

 

[Nemesiss]

Oh goodness, that poor kid is going to be in for a world of hurt in about 8 years -if her parents don't get sick and kick her out first.

this was nearly 6 years ago... I see her walk down the mainstreet occasionally. Still acting the spoiled little brat she is. When she does move out on her own she will be in for a big surprise...

 

[Nemesiss]

with love i don't meant "give them everything".But only guidance and directions don't work.
I knowvwhat im talking about..

Don't get me wrong. Ofcourse you need to love your kid and occasionally spoil him/her a little bit but giving in constantly will not give the kid a very good perspective on how the world works. Nothing will be handed to you on a silver platter (unless you bill gates kid )

 

[Koldawne]

Don't get me wrong. Ofcourse you need to love your kid and occasionally spoil him/her a little bit but giving in constantly will not give the kid a very good perspective on how the world works. Nothing will be handed to you on a silver platter (unless you bill gates kid )

I don't think THEY even have kids that's why they have the 'foundation' - but I could be wrong LOL

Our son gets lots of things but he also understands that just because he asks for it does not mean he will always get it. Of course we will always give him what he needs but for things he 'wants' we will not put up with temper tantrums at all.

 

[Nemesiss]

ooh talking about the fun things in live.... only 5 mins left for me

 

[Nemesiss]

and that's it for me... see ya later

 

[Koldawne]

and that's it for me... see ya later

Have a good night!

 

[Zachia]

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Don't get me wrong. Ofcourse you need to love your kid and occasionally spoil him/her a little bit but giving in constantly will not give the kid a very good perspective on how the world works. Nothing will be handed to you on a silver platter (unless you bill gates kid )

Oh...believe me i 've never been spoiled. .. i never wore own clothes till i'm 16 or so. Till that time i wore the clothes offen my 16 years older sister.because there wehre "still good enough"'i also mustn't go to the cinema,birthday Partys ect-waste of time. and i wasn't allowed to lough to much.because respectabel peopel don't dothat to much. ..much guidance but no love in that guidance.

 

[Zachia]

and that's it for me... see ya later

Bye!have fun

 

[Koldawne]

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Oh...believe me i 've never been spoiled. .. i never wore own clothes till i'm 16 or so. Till that time i wore the clothes offen my 16 years older sister.because there wehre "still good enough"'i also mustn't go to the cinema,birthday Partys ect-waste of time. and i wasn't allowed to lough to much.because respectabel peopel don't dothat to much. ..much guidance but no love in that guidance.

Oh I see. You got all the hard times but no love. That sucks also. My mom did her best but she wasn't overly loving to me either - It's better to have a lot of love WITH guidance for sure

 

[Zachia]

Oh I see. You got all the hard times but no love. That sucks also. My mom did her best but she wasn't overly loving to me either - It's better to have a lot of love WITH guidance for sure

That's what i mean.One thing dosen't work without the other.

 

[Zachia]

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