250K part 2

[xforeverxmetalx]

uhm, sorry? Do you possibly remember the story of my childhood? I wasn't given the slightest of "slack". I was blamed to crush my mum by any move I did wrong... but you know what? My brothers were my backup for all the things that my parents did wrong to me and I wish you meant the same to your siblings

I wasn't talking about all that...
I meant just as far as doing stuff on your own without telling your parents
and she was purposely ignoring me btw, by not answering my calls

 

[TuulenTytär]

Well, I'll deal with it in 13-15 years from now, but I will ground if needed.

(though I'm talking about my children, which makes it different)

Now I celebrated Owen's 2nd birthday!

best wishes to him!

but she assumed it was understood that her sister would tell her about leaving because she equals herself with her parents. That's unfair

it's also unfair to leave the house without saying a word..

 

[xforeverxmetalx]

nothing left to say..
but she has the responsibility for her little sister! damn..

exactly

but she assumed it was understood that her sister would tell her about leaving because she equals herself with her parents. That's unfair

I never said I'm trying to be a parent or have that kind of responsibility or anything like that...
but it's seriously not that big of a deal to mention you're going out... it's a matter of respect that she should have of me as nothing more than a sister
I mean even when I'm going out for 10 minutes to drive someone somewhere, I still have enough respect for my younger siblings to let them know I'm going out

 

[xforeverxmetalx]

Now I celebrated Owen's 2nd birthday!

happy birthday Owen *sings* :]

 

[Sipyloidea]

I wasn't talking about all that...
I meant just as far as doing stuff on your own without telling your parents
and she was purposely ignoring me btw, by not answering my calls

you said she had her cell switched off so she probably didn't know you called. And even if that's what she did, she probably did it because you were behaving too full of yourself times back so she would know you would have killed all fun and not grant her the night out

 

[Quark]

best wishes to him!

Merci vielmal

it's also unfair to leave the house without saying a word..

*agrees to that point*
But grounding her for 4(!) days is (meiner Meinung nach) over the top.

 

[TuulenTytär]

you said she had her cell switched off so she probably didn't know you called. And even if that's what she did, she probably did it because you were behaving too full of yourself times back so she would know you would have killed all fun and not grant her the night out

you're damn hidebound..i could scream right now

 

[Sipyloidea]

exactly



I never said I'm trying to be a parent or have that kind of responsibility or anything like that...
but it's seriously not that big of a deal to mention you're going out... it's a matter of respect that she should have of me as nothing more than a sister
I mean even when I'm going out for 10 minutes to drive someone somewhere, I still have enough respect for my younger siblings to let them know I'm going out

you're not saying it but you're taking the right to punish her like your parents would...

see last post

 

[xforeverxmetalx]

you said she had her cell switched off so she probably didn't know you called. And even if that's what she did, she probably did it because you were behaving too full of yourself times back so she would know you would have killed all fun and not grant her the night out

she never has her cell off, she's always texting... and she was texting me too after ignoring my calls for a bit, that's how I found out where she was and told her to be back before midnight... she said she would... then when I called back at 1am and texted her about it, she completely ignored it again

 

[Sipyloidea]

you're damn hidebound..i could scream right now

I'm hidebound? Because I am trying to understand the other side?

 

[TuulenTytär]

you're not saying it but you're taking the right to punish her like your parents would...

see last post

damn we both have no idea how it is to be the oldest one, so please stop talking about like you would know how it is..

 

[Sipyloidea]

she never has her cell off, she's always texting... and she was texting me too after ignoring my calls for a bit, that's how I found out where she was and told her to be back before midnight... she said she would... then when I called back at 1am and texted her about it, she completely ignored it again

what about forgiveness? And btw. if you try to understand her for once she might behave differently the next time because she sees that you care about her interests

 

[xforeverxmetalx]

*agrees to that point*
But grounding her for 4(!) days is (meiner Meinung nach) over the top.

technically 3, since today doesn't count [we don't go out with friends on Sundays]

you're not saying it but you're taking the right to punish her like your parents would...

my parents would have given her at least a week or two...

 

[TuulenTytär]

I'm hidebound? Because I am trying to understand the other side?

the other side made a fault, that's fact.. and i don't know all english words, so sorry

 

[Quark]

damn we both have no idea how it is to be the oldest one, so please stop talking about like you would know how it is..

Da ich der Bester hier bin, sag ich jetzt dass es einfach schluss ist.



(of dat iets gaat uithalen.... )