I've been talking with my father lately.I found out a month or 2 ago that he ungoing test for Lymphoma(a form of cancer).I called him tonight & he told me that it's pretty much comfirmed that he has it.
I don't know what to feel because when I was younger,he made it a hobbie to get drunk & beat on his wife & kids(he even pulled a gun on my mom when I was 14).He might be getting a bone marrow transplant from his sis or bro.I can't donate.I found out when I was 12 that I'm not his & my sis(who is his) has very confusing emotions(like me)about this.I've been on an emotional roller coaster for the past month or so.I cried when I got off the phone with him.Even though I'm not his,I kinda adopted the family history as my own(I still don't know who my real dad is).When I talked to him tonight,it sounded like he's given up.I don't know what to think right now & I'm worried about what my sis is going through,too.
I don't know what to feel because when I was younger,he made it a hobbie to get drunk & beat on his wife & kids(he even pulled a gun on my mom when I was 14).He might be getting a bone marrow transplant from his sis or bro.I can't donate.I found out when I was 12 that I'm not his & my sis(who is his) has very confusing emotions(like me)about this.I've been on an emotional roller coaster for the past month or so.I cried when I got off the phone with him.Even though I'm not his,I kinda adopted the family history as my own(I still don't know who my real dad is).When I talked to him tonight,it sounded like he's given up.I don't know what to think right now & I'm worried about what my sis is going through,too.